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xiaomaguohe: 我的2010最后一个精神科面试
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发信人: xiaomaguohe (麦地小马), 信区: MedicalCareer
标 题: BSO-我的2010最后一个面试
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Feb 10 13:41:40 2010, 美东)

话说我的最后一个面试,是一个进了全美前十名的program, 比我现在见习的医院排名
还高。不过我还是坚信“我的唯一”是神为我挑选的,好像挑不出有哪里不合身的。我
还真不那么水性杨花,见异思迁。面试邀请来了以后开始还犹豫要不要去,我们家那位
说话了:你花一千刀去买面试买得来么?目光放高一点,去见识见识呗。于是我就上路
了。

去以前要来了面试的日程安排(以前的面试都没敢张口要,怕被拒绝后短了自己的志气
)。名单上居然有三个名字特响,帽子特高,cv特厚的“三特”大牛人员。于是我知道
这回又要不虚此行了。查了查他们的背景和文章,准备了一张专门针对他们的问题清单
,就可以上路了。 其中两鋈耍ㄒ巫雍屯亓考兜恼信迫宋铮歉蜓∪艘黄?小组面试。先是大家自我介绍,然后随意问问题。听着其他人问一些关于program的问
题,我急啊—这些问题去问PD啊,这浪费的可是千金难买的时间和机会啊。其实,如果
大家都问高水平的问题,我就更急了。得个空我就张口了:我也有问题啊,不过不是关
于program的。椅子说好啊。我就问了:精神科药物出现以后病人就有福了,可是它们
的副作用那也是举世闻名阿。怎么才能聪明地用药呢?椅子就讲blah blah, 然后说:
一个抑郁症病人来了,我给他开药,然后告诉他:你吃了药以后如果没有觉得口干舌燥
,说明药物还没有进入脑子,所以不会有作用。你要告诉我,我好给你调整用药。说道
这里,椅子话锋一转,问大家,我为什么这样跟病人说呀?我是立刻心领神会,低头把
这个例子写下来,省得日后忘了。两个候选人说了什么我都没听见,却见椅子又扭头看
我,我赶紧说:您太有智慧啦!blah, blah. 话音刚落,椅子指着我大叫一声:You
got it! 我赶紧回他一个灿烂的微笑。旁边的另一招牌人物从另一个角度又回答了一遍
我的问题。嗨呀呀,原来如此!这个问题我想了几个月都没搞清楚阿!后面的对答我就
不听了,只是沉浸在巨大的满足中,脑子里却浮出一个念头。面试快结束了,椅子问大
家还有问题么,说着就要起身。我赶紧接过话题说:问题是没了,可我有一个请求。今
天学了终身受益的窍门,太高兴啦。也不知什么时候再能见到您们,能不能跟您们合个
影啊?随手指着窗下的LONDON FOG (专门为面试买的啊,第一次带到面试的地方因为要
赶飞机,以前都留旅馆了),我的相机刚好在这儿!两个大牛笑笑说可以。赶紧拿出相
机,先给两个大牛拍合影,他们又让我站在他们中间照了一张。我实在不是想出风头,
机会难得,失不再来啊。其他的候选人就都很保守,没人要求合影。我也没有顺水推舟
邀请他们:大家都有了,我的岂不是不值钱了?!椅子正要走,突然想起什么,半笑着
对我说:以后考BOARD的时候不可以拿出去奥 。我大喜:以后考board的时候还能用!
嘴上却说,不会不会,我就是准备把它放到我的住院医申请材料里面。椅子大笑:那你
只能放在我们program里面!我嘿嘿一笑没作声。回家后赶紧把两张片片 发过去,并感
谢他们的信任,保证除了偶尔BSO, 绝对不abuse。

午餐过后,小憩一下,我又拿出了一件武器—第三个大牛的几年前的一篇文章。这位大
牛是个psychoanalyst。那篇文章是借用一个临床实例讲解精神病医生和患者的关系。
不难想象,在精神科,医生和病人的关系要亲密到病人对你什么都讲,但是一旦治疗结
束,医患关系也就结束了,不应该和病人再有任何来往。心理治疗有的时候病人会持续
几年,有的时候病人会很迷惑,认为跟医生的关系就象是人造玫瑰花,看着很漂亮,可
是却好像不是真的。在医院两个月,有一次眼睁睁看着医生把一个多年诊断为精神分裂
症的患者重新诊断为dissociative identity disorder,每天对她进行psychotherapy
。病人刚入院的时候完全psychotic and disoriented,两周以后居然像个没事儿人似
的。我看得目瞪口呆,满地找下巴。这回带了一堆大大小小的问题,要好好利用那个30
分钟!

一进门我还是先update一下新找到的临床见习机会。还没等说完,大牛就说,那谁谁以
前在那里。又是那个mentor(我已经把进见习医院以后认识的一个大牛在心理当mentor
了)! 我都没做心理准备,惊喜之余赶紧说,是啊是啊,我回去以后还安排了跟他见面
呢。大牛说,见了他帮我问好。我说,那是没问题。然后我就照计划拿出他的文章,说
:今天能跟您见面真是太幸运了。我知道面试的进程应该由您来掌握,可是谁知道下次
再见到您是什么时候呢?我读了您的这篇文章,有一大堆问题想问您,您看能不能先回
答我的问题,然后您问我什么都行。大牛同意了。于是我就一个一个问题问下来,还不
停查查我准备的清单,唯恐漏了哪个。一边问,一边我会偶尔解释一下,我问这个问题
是因为有一个病人我是这么做的,您看合适不?如果我那样行不行?大牛一一回答了我
的全部问题。然后我合上本子说,我太高兴啦,谢谢您!您有什么问题问我么?大牛拿
出我的cv问了几个问题,我基本两三句话就解释清楚了,不知道加起来有没有5分钟。
大牛说,时间到了。 我起身再次道谢,出去一看时间,一分钟也不差!大牛经常跟人
聊天,时间把握得真好啊。而我就好像刚刚接受武林高手的推宫换血,打通了筋脉,武
力大增。回去以后发信感谢,用一两句话把我在20-30分钟学到的东西总结了一下。大
牛说非常喜欢这样的”lively exchange”, 还说我会是”a treat to work with as a
learner”。

几天以后见了mentor, 跟他说了一切,并说那里很好,但是我还是觉得“我的唯一“更
适合我, 因为blah blah。Mentor 点头说是。我又问,那谁谁给我的回信很让我感动
呀(又自作多情了),他又跟您是朋友 (其实那个椅子也跟mentor是朋友,当时椅子
问我在跟谁见习的时候,我都忘了提mentor了,究竟那时我还没见过mentor 呢),我
需不需要跟他坦白我已经心有所属了,以表达我对他的尊重呀。Mentor说不用。我就踏
实了。



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※ 修改:·xiaomaguohe 於 Feb 10 13:46:22 2010 修改本文·[FROM: 24.6.]
※ 来源:·WWW 未名空间站 海外: mitbbs.com 中国: mitbbs.cn·[FROM: 24.6.]

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1 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-21 16:10:39 提到][删除][修改] [FROM: 98.119.]


Medi is back to its glory days in the absence of the obnoxious barking from the MadDog!!! Does anyone think there are some indispensable tips he actually learned from his private club? His club is such a joke.

I cant believe this kind of idiot exists in this world. Two words to describe this piece of human trash: shameless and stupid. USMedEdu, aka, MadDog, put the following thread in his blog and bold it in the front page. Yet, clearly, the answers he endorsed are the worst answers. The answer I provided got a nod from an English forum. Does he understand the concept of shame or logic? Not only he speaks/writes shitty English, he cant think straight either. And now he wants to drag everyone down with him. PITY! What kind of dumb ass slaps his own face in public? What a joke!
无极: 住院医生面试碰到的尴尬事( 力刀评注推荐及麦地网友讨论)

Doc has successfully sabotaged a good learning club. At the peak, the pre_resident_english_corner had over 95 members and hundreds of posts. Congratulations! I will jot down a few expressions and new words here and there for myself mostly. Sorry friends. I let you down. You guys are the only losers as the bystanders caught in the cross-fire between the two warring parties. Ironically, both of the two people at war came out as the only two 'winners'. Doc can claim his star power. I can focus on my study.

Clearly, this USMedEd cant think straight anymore at his age. To give his credit where credit is due, he is still good at copying/pasting of the posts written by others. Follow his rubbish advice at your peril. We can write a laundry list of his shitty advice. This is a guy who cant keep his job for long. I am still wondering why he had to side with the losing party in a political struggle at work as he put it in one of his posts. Most people would not get involved. Only confrontational and aggressive douche bags would go for it. They can be burned again and again and are still clueless as it is just bad luck and not their faults whatsoever.

It is not just me saying this. Read this:
[snowfox01 于 2010-11-02 17:25:32 提到] [FROM: 134.74.]
Dr.Newbie:Please be nice to this old man。
难道你没看见你把他生命中唯一的支柱----收集各种贴子,然后大言不惭的copy&post 到自己的网页。给打碎了。同时,他在麦地的“一手遮天” 用那二十年前的狗屁经验来误导新人,也让你给揭穿了。我能理解他的恼羞成怒。他也没几天了,就让他乐呵乐呵吧。

There is no doubt that my English is better than anyone else including Eric and that lumcsomething. I was actually touched by the applications to my club every day during this short time. While I am still trying to figuring out the best way to get people energized and the best way to help, it went kaboom. It is such a pity. Just imagine how much more I can help once I get into residency and finish it.

I am sorry it has gone this far. This dokknife has been attacking me relentlessly on anything I write for no good reason. I have to stand up for myself. He said it himself: He does not care whether I am right or wrong. So he makes it personal. Now, he got it. It is personal between him and me.

Feel free to say hello to me at your leisure. I dont have time to play with this piece of human trash and a sadist who excels in copying/pasting and who cant keep his jobs for long. Let him have his schadenfreude from how the ex-boss who canned him got divorced. Let him brag how successful he is in dismantling a learning place.

Lets watch which comes first: I get into residency or he got fired.

并爱好给人改错的蠢人的发言更充分地反映出其愚蠢和无知,她的所谓良好英语在她的愚蠢脑袋支配下成了砸她自己脚的石头。此人在麦地已经贩卖了无数的垃圾和错误得东西。我实在无法忍受这种蠢人无休无止地误导CMG.
-----Doc.
乌龟总是对眼王八,狼和狈总是为奸。
你和这个混球对上眼很正常。装糊涂装黄花大姑娘真有坐台小姐得姿态嘛。
-----Doc
你这WSN还真是咸吃萝卜蛋操心.
-----Doc
耗子乌龟王八苍蝇和垃圾.
-----Doc
狗屁不懂的蠢货,愚蠢跳粱BSO牛Xer还真是第一次出现。各位可以饱眼福了.
-----Doc
换王八壳子来口水的蠢货的蠢言蠢语愚不可及的暴露,她懂个狗P.
-----Doc
我当我的医生,真也是撑了的,给你这号250上课来了还指望你懂人话呢。俺还真不如去打兔子大雁打网球去了。你这号真是纯粹的生物WSN德性。
-----Doc
向你这号又哭穷和没地方找饭碗,还不愿去换个活法,才真让人烦的WSN德性呢!真该去CT或MRI了!
-----Doc
你丫的又该酸掉几个牙?尔等难怪人家说生物萎缩,真TMD不亏!
-----Doc
说你等装B萎缩吧,你还扭扭捏捏跟坐台的要装黄花大姑娘似的。想来邪的,俺不是
不会更不是没掐过。
-----Doc



You all think this is acceptable and a good presentation of character? What I said back is half what he has said to me. Every time I make an apology to him, I got spit-at-your-face response in return.

It is a pity to see a good club falling apart. At least I have the decency not to use my club as a venting joint. I am sorry that you are put between a rock and a hard place. I will understand if you have to quit the club. You are always welcome to use a majia and check us out. This club is not intended as a base for isolation or a launch pad for personal attacks. It is a place purely devoted to English skills. It is a really a shame that Doc would pull people out of a club just to make people take sides. I dont see how he sabotages an educational club would help his cause. Yes, he has succeeded in pulling 20 people out of my English club and he can claim it is a win-lose-lose situation for himself. But ultimately, it is a lose-lose-lose situation.


1 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-08 22:03:16 提到][删除][修改] [FROM: 98.119.]
Do you have any traces of honor and integrity left in your body? What a piece of human trash. How hard is it to admit you were wrong? What a stupid, arrogant, crazy bitch. Your bark is worse than your bite. Pathetic loser. You promote a 'clean' medi. Yet, you started a club for the sole purpose of shitting in it.You are a disgrace to the human race.

Read this and you know how it started and what I said is exactly what Doc said to me in English. And he said it a dozen of times to me.

http://www.mitbbs.com/pc/pccon_7773_142905.html

1 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-08 23:51:41 提到][删除][修改]

What I said is half of what you have said to me. What are you whining about? Be a man. Fight fair and square. Dont just shit in your own compound. You thought you will get sympathy from your followers? What you get is despise from your sympathizers.

2 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-08 23:05:40 提到][删除][修改]
Clearly you have no comprehension of English. You have a low EQ. You are clueless here. Why dont you shut your mouth? Be a man and make an apology to me. I have apologized to you a dozen of times. What I get is spit-at-my-face every time in return. Do you have any integrity and honor left in u?

3. All said and done. You truly think you gain the upper hand by locking me outside? You truly think I will lose without getting into your club? Seriously, dont flatter yourself. I have connections to match into a good University program already. I personally know a couple of Chinese PDs and American PDs. Give me a break already.

Lexian (蒙古大夫) 于 (Thu Feb 11 12:11:31 2010, 美东) 提到:

I think you are pointing this to me. I can honestly tell you i don't have
any MaJia. never had and never will. I don't hold personal grudge against
anybody, especially this one. it's not worth my time.

However, i think you are biased by assuming people who are against tyranny
and unjust are against anyone specifically. I can only speak for myself
because i really don't know anyone else that got into similar kind of
argument with him. I have no intention of "打击正在做的人", but that doesn't
mean i won't say "WAIT A MINUTE, THIS IS NO RIGHT" when i see posts like
the one i respond to.

As i have stated long long time ago, CMG's history in this country are short
. Our mission goes far beyond getting into residency. A public forum that
attracts examiners, residents and PRACTICING PHYSICIANS is very important in
exchange information and experience. I just can't help laughing when i see
some guy who happen to got into residency wants to "harmonize" the forum. I
can honestly say the game just starts AFTER you graduate. Please refrain
from your "GOD" like euphoria of getting into the residency,

发信人: amanda12 (digest08), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 08:01:00 2010, 美东)

我想说的是,作为一名医生,应该有更高的道德标准,宽容心和同情心,医生是和人打
交道的职业,会碰到各种各样人,首先我们想到的是他是我的病人,不管他是杀人犯还
是某某人大代表,穷人和富人,都要统一对待。不会因为别人过激言语或者什么而去计
较,要这有宽容心,能站在他人的角度去理解对方,这才会得到对方的信任。不要动不
动就对别人丢WSN。。。你只会显出你心胸狭隘,既与你的医生身份不配,也会让人鄙
视!以前看过你在丁香园的帖子,貌似你没完成专科移植是因为2老美因为你手术做得
好排挤你。
别人稍与你意见不同就恶言相向,言辞激烈,这是你说服别人的办法吗?是从一名医生
口里出来的话吗?要得到别人的尊重和赞美,同时需要你在本专业的优秀和个人魅力,
一言一行感动别人,取得别人信任,医生更是如此。尊重别人的同时,别人才会尊重你
也许力刀的初衷是好的,但是从他的言语看来,更让人觉得是个暴发户。。。。

发信人: Viky (转身插口袋), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 20:03:42 2010, 美东)

只有250才会在网上显摆自己的薪水,当年这厮也显摆自己在osu的薪水,现在总算得到
头的"亲徕"了

发信人: redasuka (EVA-02), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 03:59:15 2010, 美东)

没啥奇怪的,考版的那些人本身就花了比一般PhD多得多的时间和精力,当然希望能换
来一点优越感。何况不少大陆的MD最后在北美都是在做内科儿科什么的,每天工作也很
压抑,只好靠贬低别人获得一点心理安慰啦。

说实话,我在这边认识的混得好的中国MD还没有Bio/BME的faculty比率高,绝大多数30
-40岁的Attending还是处在天天接待黑哥们的境界,收入税前也就100k多点。真正混得
好、拿大钱的的MD,那是少数,而且基本都是白人。

不是说老中没有MD混得好的,只不过那些混得好的是人家真牛,在哪一行能牛起来。至
于只是为了混碗饭吃的,还是要多掂量几下自己折腾的起不。

发信人: Kiwixi (kiwi), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 04:05:37 2010, 美东)

这斯绝对是凭着CMG来美国弄了一个博后的位子。可想而知,实验室做的一塌糊涂,老
板天天骂,连老婆也看不起,留空就跑到楼外面捡烟屁股抽。
然后就考了版,摇身一变就成了医生。

薪水涨了,心魔却去不了,跟同行比,口音重,年龄大,还是来这里显摆,
打着普渡众生的幌子,年复一年贴几个链接,满足自己的虚荣心。本来考版当医生就是
一个职业,非要搞成一个崇拜一个图腾,入门的教众齐颂文成武德哈里路亚癫狂不已。

你那几个链接还是自己留在记事本里吧。不需要你这样自上而下的伪善。

最后送你几句话,真的是为你好,淡定一些,从容一些,都快半百的人了。

他人骑大马,我独跨驴子,回顾担柴汉,心下较些子。
发信人: snowfox01 (白面狐), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 14:16:58 2010, 美东)


我可以理解许多国人为五斗米折腰,想得到需要的信息。但是十年前的经验今天不一定
适用了。而且他像传销一样给许多老CMG False hope,一些老毕业生像打了鸡血一样跟
随他, 做了不且实际的选择, 也不知害了多少家庭。精神病人很可怕, 若他再领着
一帮人, 这帮人真是可怜。 take a look:

发信人: USMedEdu (US_CMGs), 信区: MedicalCareer
标 题: Re: 考版俱乐部(Pre_Resident_Club)成立!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 10:45:26 2010, 美东)

click the link and go to club site to apply. Once you apply there, your ID
will be in waiting list for approval.

发信人: lostknife (麦地俯卧撑), 信区: MedicalCareer
标 题: Re: 考版俱乐部(Pre_Resident_Club)成立!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 13:03:31 2010, 美东)

I fully support the idea and be happy to join.
But it shows:抱歉, 缺少参数, 加入俱乐部失败!
please advise what I should do to join the club.
Thanks.

发信人: lostknife (麦地俯卧撑), 信区: MedicalCareer
标 题: Re: 考版俱乐部(Pre_Resident_Club)成立!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 13:05:16 2010, 美东)

By the way, I am a good-egg who hate the bad-egg!

【 在 meigui0714 (rose) 的大作中提到: 】
: 谢谢你的(USMedEdu)忠告。"听人劝,吃饱饭"。我会好自为之的。
: 但是,一个好的论坛氛围,需要大家的努力。我们做为老生,应该已实事求是的态度引: 导后生们走好,走稳自己的路。人生只有一次,尤其是毕业时间长,没有经历过美国正: 规教育的老生们,我们已经没有"试验”"尝试"的时间了。三思而后行, 一旦做出了决: 定,就不要犹豫,大刀阔fu, 勇往直前。
: 尊敬的老前辈,这里是公共论坛,不是你个人的博客。老了,不但应该"自尊,自爱",: 更要尊重他人的不同看法,意见,这样才能赢得更多的尊敬。“唯我独尊”“我是老: 大我怕谁”的心态是万万要不得的。这里不是"黑色会”,这里不需要“教父”!: 读者的眼睛是雪亮的,这个论坛的读者们都是受过高等教育的,相信他们清楚,谁更浅薄。


发信人: Oncogene (何时问天), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 20 18:22:24 2010, 美东)

不要再“尔等,尔等”的了,让人看了烦。身边考版做医生的太多太多了,也没见几个
这么嚣张的。

我不相信这世界有啥救世主。试图做救世主的,脑袋真的需要MRI啦

发信人: yoyoch (yoyoch), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 20 23:39:59 2010, 美东)

素质,素质。
风度,风度。

发信人: KeeVan (Kevin), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 20 23:57:59 2010, 美东)

你说你瞎急啥。就是因为你没说赚多少钱,但是又说生物wsn泛酸,我没看明白人家为什么泛酸。讨论讨论问题不行啊,你这素质也太低贱了,我看还是别行医了

发信人: pigsun (屁哥~~大圣教候补二师兄), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 01:07:33 2010, 美东)

散了吧,老刀确实不是来劝退的,也不是故意显摆,其实,他就是专门来找抽的...
--
哈,说出来心里舒服多哩

发信人: Oncogene (何时问天), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 01:25:47 2010, 美东)

我都懒得抽她。这么大年纪了,好好说话会死啊??

发信人: Oncogene (何时问天), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 01:33:02 2010, 美东)

最后回你一贴吧:
你还是真是个幻想狂人唉。还有吧,就你这口气和心态,现实中能过得舒服还真是见了鬼了。算了,刚才说了,说你也是白说。你还是好好找工作吧,最好找个$1million/yr的,可千万别把自己的高等生活给葬送了呀,走到今天(昨天)也怪不容易的。。。

发信人: Oncogene (何时问天), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 01:48:19 2010, 美东)

^_^,你这风向转的还真快

靠骂别人或者教训别人是不可能有效传播自己的信息的。就这种性格,他下个工作也
干不久,哪个上下级能受得了这种人啊。好象别人没见过钱没见过医生没见过成功
人士一样,一副高高在上的架势,受不了。

发信人: newlily (lily), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 09:18:43 2010, 美东)

老刀,本来我是挺尊敬您的,想从您的帖子学点东西,结果谩骂满篇,没有一点有用的东西。

发信人: Viky (转身插口袋), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 11:19:53 2010, 美东)

这厮两次被fired了,还特喜欢到处指手画脚

标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 14:10:26 2010, 美东)

1.相信大家都有北美工作经验,新chair来了,就辞掉所有的人,可能吗?道是有可能
。。。。,

2.“加拿大拿的工资比美国大学薪水要高一倍可工
: 作量才是美国的1/4(其实俺每天1小时就干完了!)” 这种事情只会发生在社会主义
中国。 加拿大? 你可别弄的跟唐骏似的。
3.你是为了祖国加拿大的医学发展,毅然决然放弃了美国的高薪
工作,回到了加拿大了吧。

发信人: Viky (转身插口袋), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 11:31:42 2010, 美东)

正常个p, 被fired了就是被fired, 没见过这么不要脸的


【 在 USMedEdu (US_CMGs) 的大作中提到: 】
: 窝草! 俺自己在网上说过,还怕你来拾俺的鞋后跟泥巴砸俺不成?
: 被新chair辞了,换朝换臣找新工作在北美不是常事吗?哪个医生老死在一个单位的?
: 俺要再显摆一把告诉你俺现在在加拿大拿的工资比美国大学薪水要高一倍可工
: 作量才是美国的1/4(其实俺每天1小时就干完了!)你丫的又该酸掉几个牙?
: 尔等难怪人家说生物萎缩,真TMD不亏!




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1 [Viky 于 2010-11-12 09:42:23 提到][删除] [FROM: 152.11.]
劝 lz别跟那个老250浪费时间了。。
 
2   [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-21 16:10:39 提到] [FROM: 98.]


Medi is back to its glory days in the absence of the obnoxious barking from the MadDog!!! Does anyone think there are some indispensable tips he actually learned from his private club? His club is such a joke.

I cant believe this kind of idiot exists in this world. Two words to describe this piece of human trash: shameless and stupid. USMedEdu, aka, MadDog, put the following thread in his blog and bold it in the front page. Yet, clearly, the answers he endorsed are the worst answers. The answer I provided got a nod from an English forum. Does he understand the concept of shame or logic? Not only he speaks/writes shitty English, he cant think straight either. And now he wants to drag everyone down with him. PITY! What kind of dumb ass slaps his own face in public? What a joke!
无极: 住院医生面试碰到的尴尬事( 力刀评注推荐及麦地网友讨论)

Doc has successfully sabotaged a good learning club. At the peak, the pre_resident_english_corner had over 95 members and hundreds of posts. Congratulations! I will jot down a few expressions and new words here and there for myself mostly. Sorry friends. I let you down. You guys are the only losers as the bystanders caught in the cross-fire between the two warring parties. Ironically, both of the two people at war came out as the only two 'winners'. Doc can claim his star power. I can focus on my study.

Clearly, this USMedEd cant think straight anymore at his age. To give his credit where credit is due, he is still good at copying/pasting of the posts written by others. Follow his rubbish advice at your peril. We can write a laundry list of his shitty advice. This is a guy who cant keep his job for long. I am still wondering why he had to side with the losing party in a political struggle at work as he put it in one of his posts. Most people would not get involved. Only confrontational and aggressive douche bags would go for it. They can be burned again and again and are still clueless as it is just bad luck and not their faults whatsoever.

It is not just me saying this. Read this:
[snowfox01 于 2010-11-02 17:25:32 提到] [FROM: 134.74.]
Dr.Newbie:Please be nice to this old man。
难道你没看见你把他生命中唯一的支柱----收集各种贴子,然后大言不惭的copy&post 到自己的网页。给打碎了。同时,他在麦地的“一手遮天” 用那二十年前的狗屁经验来误导新人,也让你给揭穿了。我能理解他的恼羞成怒。他也没几天了,就让他乐呵乐呵吧。

There is no doubt that my English is better than anyone else including Eric and that lumcsomething. I was actually touched by the applications to my club every day during this short time. While I am still trying to figuring out the best way to get people energized and the best way to help, it went kaboom. It is such a pity. Just imagine how much more I can help once I get into residency and finish it.

I am sorry it has gone this far. This dokknife has been attacking me relentlessly on anything I write for no good reason. I have to stand up for myself. He said it himself: He does not care whether I am right or wrong. So he makes it personal. Now, he got it. It is personal between him and me.

Feel free to say hello to me at your leisure. I dont have time to play with this piece of human trash and a sadist who excels in copying/pasting and who cant keep his jobs for long. Let him have his schadenfreude from how the ex-boss who canned him got divorced. Let him brag how successful he is in dismantling a learning place.

Lets watch which comes first: I get into residency or he got fired.

并爱好给人改错的蠢人的发言更充分地反映出其愚蠢和无知,她的所谓良好英语在她的愚蠢脑袋支配下成了砸她自己脚的石头。此人在麦地已经贩卖了无数的垃圾和错误得东西。我实在无法忍受这种蠢人无休无止地误导CMG.
-----Doc.
乌龟总是对眼王八,狼和狈总是为奸。
你和这个混球对上眼很正常。装糊涂装黄花大姑娘真有坐台小姐得姿态嘛。
-----Doc
你这WSN还真是咸吃萝卜蛋操心.
-----Doc
耗子乌龟王八苍蝇和垃圾.
-----Doc
狗屁不懂的蠢货,愚蠢跳粱BSO牛Xer还真是第一次出现。各位可以饱眼福了.
-----Doc
换王八壳子来口水的蠢货的蠢言蠢语愚不可及的暴露,她懂个狗P.
-----Doc
我当我的医生,真也是撑了的,给你这号250上课来了还指望你懂人话呢。俺还真不如去打兔子大雁打网球去了。你这号真是纯粹的生物WSN德性。
-----Doc
向你这号又哭穷和没地方找饭碗,还不愿去换个活法,才真让人烦的WSN德性呢!真该去CT或MRI了!
-----Doc
你丫的又该酸掉几个牙?尔等难怪人家说生物萎缩,真TMD不亏!
-----Doc
说你等装B萎缩吧,你还扭扭捏捏跟坐台的要装黄花大姑娘似的。想来邪的,俺不是
不会更不是没掐过。
-----Doc



You all think this is acceptable and a good presentation of character? What I said back is half what he has said to me. Every time I make an apology to him, I got spit-at-your-face response in return.

It is a pity to see a good club falling apart. At least I have the decency not to use my club as a venting joint. I am sorry that you are put between a rock and a hard place. I will understand if you have to quit the club. You are always welcome to use a majia and check us out. This club is not intended as a base for isolation or a launch pad for personal attacks. It is a place purely devoted to English skills. It is a really a shame that Doc would pull people out of a club just to make people take sides. I dont see how he sabotages an educational club would help his cause. Yes, he has succeeded in pulling 20 people out of my English club and he can claim it is a win-lose-lose situation for himself. But ultimately, it is a lose-lose-lose situation.


1 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-08 22:03:16 提到][删除][修改] [FROM: 98.119.]
Do you have any traces of honor and integrity left in your body? What a piece of human trash. How hard is it to admit you were wrong? What a stupid, arrogant, crazy bitch. Your bark is worse than your bite. Pathetic loser. You promote a 'clean' medi. Yet, you started a club for the sole purpose of shitting in it.You are a disgrace to the human race.

Read this and you know how it started and what I said is exactly what Doc said to me in English. And he said it a dozen of times to me.

http://www.mitbbs.com/pc/pccon_7773_142905.html

1 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-08 23:51:41 提到][删除][修改]

What I said is half of what you have said to me. What are you whining about? Be a man. Fight fair and square. Dont just shit in your own compound. You thought you will get sympathy from your followers? What you get is despise from your sympathizers.

2 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-08 23:05:40 提到][删除][修改]
Clearly you have no comprehension of English. You have a low EQ. You are clueless here. Why dont you shut your mouth? Be a man and make an apology to me. I have apologized to you a dozen of times. What I get is spit-at-my-face every time in return. Do you have any integrity and honor left in u?

3. All said and done. You truly think you gain the upper hand by locking me outside? You truly think I will lose without getting into your club? Seriously, dont flatter yourself. I have connections to match into a good University program already. I personally know a couple of Chinese PDs and American PDs. Give me a break already.

Lexian (蒙古大夫) 于 (Thu Feb 11 12:11:31 2010, 美东) 提到:

I think you are pointing this to me. I can honestly tell you i don't have
any MaJia. never had and never will. I don't hold personal grudge against
anybody, especially this one. it's not worth my time.

However, i think you are biased by assuming people who are against tyranny
and unjust are against anyone specifically. I can only speak for myself
because i really don't know anyone else that got into similar kind of
argument with him. I have no intention of "打击正在做的人", but that doesn't
mean i won't say "WAIT A MINUTE, THIS IS NO RIGHT" when i see posts like
the one i respond to.

As i have stated long long time ago, CMG's history in this country are short
. Our mission goes far beyond getting into residency. A public forum that
attracts examiners, residents and PRACTICING PHYSICIANS is very important in
exchange information and experience. I just can't help laughing when i see
some guy who happen to got into residency wants to "harmonize" the forum. I
can honestly say the game just starts AFTER you graduate. Please refrain
from your "GOD" like euphoria of getting into the residency,

发信人: amanda12 (digest08), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 08:01:00 2010, 美东)

我想说的是,作为一名医生,应该有更高的道德标准,宽容心和同情心,医生是和人打
交道的职业,会碰到各种各样人,首先我们想到的是他是我的病人,不管他是杀人犯还
是某某人大代表,穷人和富人,都要统一对待。不会因为别人过激言语或者什么而去计
较,要这有宽容心,能站在他人的角度去理解对方,这才会得到对方的信任。不要动不
动就对别人丢WSN。。。你只会显出你心胸狭隘,既与你的医生身份不配,也会让人鄙
视!以前看过你在丁香园的帖子,貌似你没完成专科移植是因为2老美因为你手术做得
好排挤你。
别人稍与你意见不同就恶言相向,言辞激烈,这是你说服别人的办法吗?是从一名医生
口里出来的话吗?要得到别人的尊重和赞美,同时需要你在本专业的优秀和个人魅力,
一言一行感动别人,取得别人信任,医生更是如此。尊重别人的同时,别人才会尊重你
也许力刀的初衷是好的,但是从他的言语看来,更让人觉得是个暴发户。。。。

发信人: Viky (转身插口袋), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 20:03:42 2010, 美东)

只有250才会在网上显摆自己的薪水,当年这厮也显摆自己在osu的薪水,现在总算得到
头的"亲徕"了

发信人: redasuka (EVA-02), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 03:59:15 2010, 美东)

没啥奇怪的,考版的那些人本身就花了比一般PhD多得多的时间和精力,当然希望能换
来一点优越感。何况不少大陆的MD最后在北美都是在做内科儿科什么的,每天工作也很
压抑,只好靠贬低别人获得一点心理安慰啦。

说实话,我在这边认识的混得好的中国MD还没有Bio/BME的faculty比率高,绝大多数30
-40岁的Attending还是处在天天接待黑哥们的境界,收入税前也就100k多点。真正混得
好、拿大钱的的MD,那是少数,而且基本都是白人。

不是说老中没有MD混得好的,只不过那些混得好的是人家真牛,在哪一行能牛起来。至
于只是为了混碗饭吃的,还是要多掂量几下自己折腾的起不。

发信人: Kiwixi (kiwi), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 04:05:37 2010, 美东)

这斯绝对是凭着CMG来美国弄了一个博后的位子。可想而知,实验室做的一塌糊涂,老
板天天骂,连老婆也看不起,留空就跑到楼外面捡烟屁股抽。
然后就考了版,摇身一变就成了医生。

薪水涨了,心魔却去不了,跟同行比,口音重,年龄大,还是来这里显摆,
打着普渡众生的幌子,年复一年贴几个链接,满足自己的虚荣心。本来考版当医生就是
一个职业,非要搞成一个崇拜一个图腾,入门的教众齐颂文成武德哈里路亚癫狂不已。

你那几个链接还是自己留在记事本里吧。不需要你这样自上而下的伪善。

最后送你几句话,真的是为你好,淡定一些,从容一些,都快半百的人了。

他人骑大马,我独跨驴子,回顾担柴汉,心下较些子。
发信人: snowfox01 (白面狐), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 14:16:58 2010, 美东)


我可以理解许多国人为五斗米折腰,想得到需要的信息。但是十年前的经验今天不一定
适用了。而且他像传销一样给许多老CMG False hope,一些老毕业生像打了鸡血一样跟
随他, 做了不且实际的选择, 也不知害了多少家庭。精神病人很可怕, 若他再领着
一帮人, 这帮人真是可怜。 take a look:

发信人: USMedEdu (US_CMGs), 信区: MedicalCareer
标 题: Re: 考版俱乐部(Pre_Resident_Club)成立!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 10:45:26 2010, 美东)

click the link and go to club site to apply. Once you apply there, your ID
will be in waiting list for approval.

发信人: lostknife (麦地俯卧撑), 信区: MedicalCareer
标 题: Re: 考版俱乐部(Pre_Resident_Club)成立!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 13:03:31 2010, 美东)

I fully support the idea and be happy to join.
But it shows:抱歉, 缺少参数, 加入俱乐部失败!
please advise what I should do to join the club.
Thanks.

发信人: lostknife (麦地俯卧撑), 信区: MedicalCareer
标 题: Re: 考版俱乐部(Pre_Resident_Club)成立!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 22 13:05:16 2010, 美东)

By the way, I am a good-egg who hate the bad-egg!

【 在 meigui0714 (rose) 的大作中提到: 】
: 谢谢你的(USMedEdu)忠告。"听人劝,吃饱饭"。我会好自为之的。
: 但是,一个好的论坛氛围,需要大家的努力。我们做为老生,应该已实事求是的态度引: 导后生们走好,走稳自己的路。人生只有一次,尤其是毕业时间长,没有经历过美国正: 规教育的老生们,我们已经没有"试验”"尝试"的时间了。三思而后行, 一旦做出了决: 定,就不要犹豫,大刀阔fu, 勇往直前。
: 尊敬的老前辈,这里是公共论坛,不是你个人的博客。老了,不但应该"自尊,自爱",: 更要尊重他人的不同看法,意见,这样才能赢得更多的尊敬。“唯我独尊”“我是老: 大我怕谁”的心态是万万要不得的。这里不是"黑色会”,这里不需要“教父”!: 读者的眼睛是雪亮的,这个论坛的读者们都是受过高等教育的,相信他们清楚,谁更浅薄。


发信人: Oncogene (何时问天), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 20 18:22:24 2010, 美东)

不要再“尔等,尔等”的了,让人看了烦。身边考版做医生的太多太多了,也没见几个
这么嚣张的。

我不相信这世界有啥救世主。试图做救世主的,脑袋真的需要MRI啦

发信人: yoyoch (yoyoch), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 20 23:39:59 2010, 美东)

素质,素质。
风度,风度。

发信人: KeeVan (Kevin), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 20 23:57:59 2010, 美东)

你说你瞎急啥。就是因为你没说赚多少钱,但是又说生物wsn泛酸,我没看明白人家为什么泛酸。讨论讨论问题不行啊,你这素质也太低贱了,我看还是别行医了

发信人: pigsun (屁哥~~大圣教候补二师兄), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 01:07:33 2010, 美东)

散了吧,老刀确实不是来劝退的,也不是故意显摆,其实,他就是专门来找抽的...
--
哈,说出来心里舒服多哩

发信人: Oncogene (何时问天), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 01:25:47 2010, 美东)

我都懒得抽她。这么大年纪了,好好说话会死啊??

发信人: Oncogene (何时问天), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 01:33:02 2010, 美东)

最后回你一贴吧:
你还是真是个幻想狂人唉。还有吧,就你这口气和心态,现实中能过得舒服还真是见了鬼了。算了,刚才说了,说你也是白说。你还是好好找工作吧,最好找个$1million/yr的,可千万别把自己的高等生活给葬送了呀,走到今天(昨天)也怪不容易的。。。

发信人: Oncogene (何时问天), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 01:48:19 2010, 美东)

^_^,你这风向转的还真快

靠骂别人或者教训别人是不可能有效传播自己的信息的。就这种性格,他下个工作也
干不久,哪个上下级能受得了这种人啊。好象别人没见过钱没见过医生没见过成功
人士一样,一副高高在上的架势,受不了。

发信人: newlily (lily), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 09:18:43 2010, 美东)

老刀,本来我是挺尊敬您的,想从您的帖子学点东西,结果谩骂满篇,没有一点有用的东西。

发信人: Viky (转身插口袋), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 11:19:53 2010, 美东)

这厮两次被fired了,还特喜欢到处指手画脚

标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 14:10:26 2010, 美东)

1.相信大家都有北美工作经验,新chair来了,就辞掉所有的人,可能吗?道是有可能
。。。。,

2.“加拿大拿的工资比美国大学薪水要高一倍可工
: 作量才是美国的1/4(其实俺每天1小时就干完了!)” 这种事情只会发生在社会主义
中国。 加拿大? 你可别弄的跟唐骏似的。
3.你是为了祖国加拿大的医学发展,毅然决然放弃了美国的高薪
工作,回到了加拿大了吧。

发信人: Viky (转身插口袋), 信区: Biology
标 题: Re: 给生物同学们: dojo: 走进美国医学院之旅
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 21 11:31:42 2010, 美东)

正常个p, 被fired了就是被fired, 没见过这么不要脸的


【 在 USMedEdu (US_CMGs) 的大作中提到: 】
: 窝草! 俺自己在网上说过,还怕你来拾俺的鞋后跟泥巴砸俺不成?
: 被新chair辞了,换朝换臣找新工作在北美不是常事吗?哪个医生老死在一个单位的?
: 俺要再显摆一把告诉你俺现在在加拿大拿的工资比美国大学薪水要高一倍可工
: 作量才是美国的1/4(其实俺每天1小时就干完了!)你丫的又该酸掉几个牙?
: 尔等难怪人家说生物萎缩,真TMD不亏!




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1 [Viky 于 2010-11-12 09:42:23 提到][删除] [FROM: 152.11.]
劝 lz别跟那个老250浪费时间了。。
 
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