发信人: EmperorXi (习近平), 信区: WmGame
标 题: bullying (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 3 18:22:22 2015, 美东)
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发信人: Grandmaster (Garry Kasparov), 信区: MJ
标 题: bullying
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Sep 17 11:27:50 2013, 美东)
Hate has a reason for everything love is unreasonable.
Bullying can be classified into two categories:
direct bullying, and
indirect bullying (which is also known as social aggression)
Psychological research found bullies may be among the most popular and
socially connected in their environment. It is the case in our tlj room. The
bullies here are some high hands, they have circles, and they do indirect
Social aggression or indirect bullying is characterized by attempting to
socially isolate the victim. When those high handed player laughing at/
mocking players out of their circle, kicking them, false accusing them, or
doing something like LZ doing, it is bullying, too.
天天污言秽语骂大街 certainly is a form of bullying, but it also can be a
form of reaction to bullying.
I would say to solve this we all should first stop bullying ourselves, in
any forms. For those guys been 天天污言秽语骂大街, my advice is stop
confrontation and try communicate. If you can show little empathy toward
others, for sure that is one of characteristics of bullying.
Another advice to those open black shops, black shop is a form of bullying,
too, it is psychological threat to other players, it elicits negative
responses very often. The key word here is empathy, meaning recognize
emotions that are being experienced by another party.
Advice to LZ, stop bullying and show empathy. For legal action, there are
tons of lawyers can provide you legal advice if needed. Why not pick up the
phone and use their first half hour free consultation service?
Good luck, and wish us all happy games
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